Rex Lassalle was more than a teacher, mentor, and healer—he was a guiding light for all who had the privilege of learning from him. His wisdom, drawn from a deep well of experience, spanned disciplines, cultures, and traditions, yet he shared it with a simplicity and clarity that resonated deeply with those who sought his guidance.

In my books and notes from Rex, there is a small set of testimonials. One of these is from Yoko Ono, who says, "His meditative calm relaxes you as if you went through a Zen koan. You are left with a well-rested body and a clear mind." I think she summed up his work well.

I first met Rex in 1995, and from that moment, his presence left a lasting imprint on my life. As a master of Nine Star Ki, he had an uncanny ability to reveal the unseen rhythms that shape our lives. He taught not just through knowledge, but through presence—his words carried the weight of true understanding, and his insights had the power to shift perspectives and awaken new possibilities. He honoured the traditions he studied while always encouraging personal exploration, ensuring that those who followed his path did so with integrity and authenticity.

His wisdom extended beyond his personal teachings into his books, where he shared his knowledge with the world. Works such as The Time of Your Life – The Five Elements & Your Body Type, Your Emotions & The Alchemy of Time, and Grasshopping Through Time offer profound insights into personal growth, healing, and self-awareness.

Beyond his teachings, Rex embodied a rare combination of warmth, humility, and strength. He listened with an open heart, spoke with purpose, and carried himself with a quiet grace that made others feel seen and understood. He was a storyteller, a bridge between worlds, and a catalyst for transformation.

For me, Rex was also a very funny guy. He understood my sense of humor in a way that allowed him to inject little comments that few other people would understand, but would have me inwardly laughing a lot! I will never forget when I made him and myself a cup of herbal tea before one of his seminars—only to find out that the tea had a strong diuretic effect! I still sometimes wonder what the seminar participants thought we were doing when we kept running out of the room!

To those fortunate enough to have known him, Rex was not just a teacher but a presence that lingers—his lessons continue to unfold long after they were first shared. His legacy is not merely in words or writings but in the countless lives he touched, the minds he awakened, and the souls he inspired.

During the lockdown period, Rex released his Alchemy of Time book and audio. We had several conversations, as Rex wanted me to understand the deep subtleties of the work that accompanied it. Looking back on that time, much of it was about honoring my own work and experiences, as well as those in the tradition that brought me to where I was at the time. The work was very grounding.

Last Wednesday night, I was writing a little for my newsletter about Nine Star Ki, so I had Rex on my mind. As I was locking up my studio, his voice appeared in my head saying, "When I have died, you (Ray) will be one of the people who will carry my work forward and keep it alive." The next morning, I looked at Facebook and learned from one of Rex's friends, Bill Tara, of his passing. Perhaps this was Rex giving me a last piece of advice, or perhaps it was just me making things up in my head—who cares! It is good advice, and I know that Rex would be happy for me to share this story with you.

Though he may no longer walk among us, his light remains. It shines in the wisdom he imparted, the love he shared, and the path he illuminated for so many. We honour him not just in memory, but in how we carry forward the teachings, kindness, and truth he so generously shared with the world.



Thank you, Rex, for the gift of your presence and the legacy of your wisdom. You are deeply missed and forever remembered.